Are you in search of Happiness?
I rejoice greatly in the Lord that at last you have renewed your concern for me. Indeed you have been concerned but you had no opportunity to show it. I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever my circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation. Philippians 4:11-12
If we really search our hearts today, most of us can say to a good measure we are not very happy. We can present an outward appearance of it. We can pretend to all of our Christian friends. But when we are alone in our quiet times, the secret pain and hurts and longings in our heart come out, and we recognize and acknowledge it. It is there, and it hurts! We are lonely, and bruised.
I think we could learn some lessons from Paul about this.
Paul wrote this letter from prison. (The book of Philippians)
Certainly a challenging place to keep your spirits up. Yet this letter was full of the words joy and rejoice. Paul discovered a secret. Happiness does not come from our circumstances or from other people. Happiness comes from allowing God's peace to fill us regardless of our circumstances.
I also think we need to do some mental homework. Because of the media blitz of all the things that are supposed to make us happy: possessions, money, power, a great body, sex, fun vacations, perfect health. That can be depressing for people that have none of the above. Nothing in this world can give the real happiness.
And most people don't have most of the above.
The point is, we are trying to live up to the world's expectations of what should make us happy. And we look at all that, and say, well I don't have that, and so I cannot be happy.
Yet, I have read book after book about people in unbelievably sad circumstances finding total peace within them. Because they learned to surrender every bit of the worry to God. They did not allow their circumstances to drag them down, they mentally and spiritually rose above their circumstances.
I remember so many books by Corrie Ten Boom, whom I personally admire greatly. She survived a death camp in Germany where she had been interred from helping Jews escape to freedom. She lost her father and sister there, and went through terrible, ungodly hardships. Yet she unwaveringly had a good attitude, and talked about God and witnessed. I recount one story of years after she got out of the camp, she was going around the world telling her story, and telling of the grace of God. And as she entered a church a man came up to shake hands with her, and she recognized him as one of the guards from the death camp. And I am sure her heart stopped within her, and she wanted to be so angry at him, and God told her she must forgive Him. And it was so hard for her to reach out and take his hand. But the moment she did, she forgave him, and felt such a release within her heart. God had done a miracle for her and this man that so many years ago had tortured people, and now was humbled and had found the Lord as his savior.
Corrie often said, “There is no pit so deep that God's love is not deeper still”.
My friends, if you on a daily basis are expecting others to rescue you or fix things for you or make you happy, you will never be happy.
If you are expecting money, power, physical things or the things of this world to bring you happiness you will be disappointed. They are worthless in the long scheme of things. They do not bring inner satisfaction. Their pleasure is brief.
If you think there is one perfect love in this world who will make everything OK, you will be sad.
For each person, although a gift to us, and each person brings some special joy to our lives, cannot fill all of our needs. So each person we enjoy, and savor what we do receive from them, and we find peace in that. Don't have unreasonable expectations. Just love them. And let them love you. And if at times they cannot be what you need, just remember all the times that they were there for you.
Instead of spending your days, remembering all you have lost, focusing on your pain and hurt, and thinking sad things.
Why not take a fresh look around you, and appreciate what you do have!
Because if you do not, life is going to pass you by, and you are not going to be happy one day of that life. Because all you spent your time on was your sadness.
Life is not just about being happy, it is about learning to be content with what we have, learning to minister to others, and learning to make peace with whatever circumstances we find ourselves in. If Paul can be persecuted and in prison, and find something to be joyful about. Why can you and I not find something to be joyful about each day?
Recognize that happiness does not depend on your circumstances; it depends on your focus. If you continually feast on sad thoughts, your dinner will be sad thoughts.
If you fill your life, with being thankful for what you do have, and loving people, your dinner will be peace.
It is simply that easy. It is a mental choice.
You are given that fresh choice each morning, to savor the day, or to fill it with sadness. Choose to rise above your circumstances and find happiness in the gift of a new day and the blessings that you DO have.
In Jesus Christ lies the happiness that you are hunting for!
Millie
I rejoice greatly in the Lord that at last you have renewed your concern for me. Indeed you have been concerned but you had no opportunity to show it. I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever my circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation. Philippians 4:11-12
If we really search our hearts today, most of us can say to a good measure we are not very happy. We can present an outward appearance of it. We can pretend to all of our Christian friends. But when we are alone in our quiet times, the secret pain and hurts and longings in our heart come out, and we recognize and acknowledge it. It is there, and it hurts! We are lonely, and bruised.
I think we could learn some lessons from Paul about this.
Paul wrote this letter from prison. (The book of Philippians)
Certainly a challenging place to keep your spirits up. Yet this letter was full of the words joy and rejoice. Paul discovered a secret. Happiness does not come from our circumstances or from other people. Happiness comes from allowing God's peace to fill us regardless of our circumstances.
I also think we need to do some mental homework. Because of the media blitz of all the things that are supposed to make us happy: possessions, money, power, a great body, sex, fun vacations, perfect health. That can be depressing for people that have none of the above. Nothing in this world can give the real happiness.
And most people don't have most of the above.
The point is, we are trying to live up to the world's expectations of what should make us happy. And we look at all that, and say, well I don't have that, and so I cannot be happy.
Yet, I have read book after book about people in unbelievably sad circumstances finding total peace within them. Because they learned to surrender every bit of the worry to God. They did not allow their circumstances to drag them down, they mentally and spiritually rose above their circumstances.
I remember so many books by Corrie Ten Boom, whom I personally admire greatly. She survived a death camp in Germany where she had been interred from helping Jews escape to freedom. She lost her father and sister there, and went through terrible, ungodly hardships. Yet she unwaveringly had a good attitude, and talked about God and witnessed. I recount one story of years after she got out of the camp, she was going around the world telling her story, and telling of the grace of God. And as she entered a church a man came up to shake hands with her, and she recognized him as one of the guards from the death camp. And I am sure her heart stopped within her, and she wanted to be so angry at him, and God told her she must forgive Him. And it was so hard for her to reach out and take his hand. But the moment she did, she forgave him, and felt such a release within her heart. God had done a miracle for her and this man that so many years ago had tortured people, and now was humbled and had found the Lord as his savior.
Corrie often said, “There is no pit so deep that God's love is not deeper still”.
My friends, if you on a daily basis are expecting others to rescue you or fix things for you or make you happy, you will never be happy.
If you are expecting money, power, physical things or the things of this world to bring you happiness you will be disappointed. They are worthless in the long scheme of things. They do not bring inner satisfaction. Their pleasure is brief.
If you think there is one perfect love in this world who will make everything OK, you will be sad.
For each person, although a gift to us, and each person brings some special joy to our lives, cannot fill all of our needs. So each person we enjoy, and savor what we do receive from them, and we find peace in that. Don't have unreasonable expectations. Just love them. And let them love you. And if at times they cannot be what you need, just remember all the times that they were there for you.
Instead of spending your days, remembering all you have lost, focusing on your pain and hurt, and thinking sad things.
Why not take a fresh look around you, and appreciate what you do have!
Because if you do not, life is going to pass you by, and you are not going to be happy one day of that life. Because all you spent your time on was your sadness.
Life is not just about being happy, it is about learning to be content with what we have, learning to minister to others, and learning to make peace with whatever circumstances we find ourselves in. If Paul can be persecuted and in prison, and find something to be joyful about. Why can you and I not find something to be joyful about each day?
Recognize that happiness does not depend on your circumstances; it depends on your focus. If you continually feast on sad thoughts, your dinner will be sad thoughts.
If you fill your life, with being thankful for what you do have, and loving people, your dinner will be peace.
It is simply that easy. It is a mental choice.
You are given that fresh choice each morning, to savor the day, or to fill it with sadness. Choose to rise above your circumstances and find happiness in the gift of a new day and the blessings that you DO have.
In Jesus Christ lies the happiness that you are hunting for!
Millie
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